I take that back Tyler12. I do have expectations (just been rationalizing and denying) which have led to a LOT of anger and resentment. I think my anger and resentment have been the driving force in my W going from wanting a separation to wanting a D.

THANK YOU for pointing that out!!! I needed that different perspective.

Me:44 W:38
T:10.5 M:7.5
D:3
BD: 7/2015
W moves out of MBR: 9/2015
WW files for D: 2/8/2016