Thanks Tyler12. I think I'm ok about not having any expectations. I'm more concerned about coming off as distant, cold and uncaring. I'm looking for indifferent because part of my problem stems from shutting people out. I'm not intentionally cold or rude to people and some have mentioned that i seem aloof. I don't feel that is the real me and I don't know how to change that perception.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016