Hi Pink, well I would think your options are either:

A - ignore & if he comes back again, you've been busy etc.

Or

B - coffee & zero expectations. Plus non-reaction to what he says - thanks for telling me that XH. I'll need to think about that ec. Then come back here to post for advice?

I think the main thing is to not get drawn back into his chaos. But do wait & see what wiser posters think too xx

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