gs9, you raise good points. I don't know what is working and what is not working because we have NC since a few brief texts on Friday about when I would be out of our house so she could come back home. I know I was begging, pleading, crying and pursuing, so I know that wasn't working, especially at the end. She was calling me as recently as a week ago, and I was always thrilled at the sound of her voice. But now that I'm out of the house, I think there is no choice but NC. I was going to go to yoga today, knowing that she might be there, and instead had lunch with a friend. I think that's a good strategy.
In a little bit I'm going to go see a movie w a friend. And the friend's partner saw W yesterday. I may get some information on what W's thinking. That may help. Or maybe it won't. I'm a little scared, since I don't want bad news right before I sit in a movie for 3 hours.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
