Joie,

You mentioned an awful lot of things and insurance seems to be a detail rather than the biggest issue. It may be what's on your plate at the moment, but it would help us to have a better picture. Can you give us a breakdown of your relationship, where it is currently at, and what your partner is telling you at this moment? What would they say are the issues? What is the current status? Are you living together or separated? When? First marriage for both of you? How old are you both?

Once we know the whole picture and where things have been moving we can start to be more helpful.

Thanks. Keep posting.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15