DB tries to help us save ourselves, and our marriages. But please note that in her books and here,
no one is saying that we must save our marriages, at all cost.
I'm not sure how wonderful "saving a marriage" is,
IF what we really mean is to "not divorce", AND to stay in a marriage with disrespect as an acceptable option. Some marriages are not going to survive no matter what One spouse does...
I've still not figured out what your h sees as HIS responsibilities (as opposed to his rights).
You earn the money and you do most of the house work (but apparently not in a humble enough way) and most of the child care...and
You said it has been a pretty long time since you've had much happiness in this m, and I can see why.
So, Do you believe you, Kyrie, deserve to be happy & respected?
What would be the negative consequences of a divorce from him, which HE has threatened?
Finally, if your h remains as he is now, (which is actually the most likely path), then what are the negative consequences of staying married to him?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
