I don't know what to tell you. I just can't fathom that he could be capable of all that stuff. I know he would never stop paying rent on the place, it's in his name and he has been working hard trying to get his credit up. He will also be moving in after we move overseas.
I already to him I'm entitled to 17% of his income in child support but we don't know how much spousal. He is of course looking to reduce those amounts. He said that the amounts should be based on standard of living where we are going overseas, not standard of living where we are now. I almost fell for that one too until a friend of mine pointed out that it's not based on standard of living, it's a percentage of his income. He's not getting away with less than 17% unless I agree to it. And I won't.
