But, I guess what I am referring to is that I am actively trying to better myself. Maybe she is too, who knows. We both messed things up. That is true. Right now, she is not willing/ready to fix them, and may never be.
I agree. My point was that in seeing you say this:
She is in the wrong now, not me.
it makes me think that you believe you are "finished".
Just like she put 100% of the blame on you at BD, dont allow yourself to put 100% of the blame on her, now.
