Originally Posted By: rich4j
litb....not sure I could stomach finding out about an A right now as this is hard enough but it may explain more than what I am grasping at now.

Not sure when I get to eat again as I have a pit in my stomach every day.

couldn't find info on starsky except a post or 2.

Got 1/2 way thru the Divorce Remedy book...is this alot different than DB?


Here is a link to a great post from sandi2 about intel. Post #2644016
Post from sandi2

I realize that it is a lot to digest. Not trying to overwhelm you.

Let's talk about you. How's your GAL going? What has changed about you since you began this journey?

I'd suggest to read and re-read the links that Cadet has provided. Detachment, boundaries, GAL and not being an enabler are within your control.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa