Originally Posted By: dday
She is in the wrong now, not me.

Well....yes and no. She is in the wrong for her half. You are in the wrong for your half.

Dont lose sight of your own personal improvement while you are wrapped up in letting XW go.

From FO on mutatio's thread:

Originally Posted By: dday
Don't have a crystal ball, and I am not a fortune teller.

Even if you had one, wouldnt you rather believe that you had some control on your future?

If you KNEW your XW was coming back, would you work as hard?
If you KNEW she wasnt coming back, would you give yourself the time to heal?