Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[Tyler12]

Hi G8r. I apologize I have to catch up on your thread. And I appreciate you coming to mine.
" how much to tell her, when she asks"
Remember have no expectaions. If your like me you expect et to come to you asking how the weekend was and what you did. What if she doesn't ask? It Los going to hurt and your going to follow her around until she asks of you just start telling her. I used to.
it seems like you want her to ask you so you can say how great it was and make yourself feel good and hope she gives you a smile and a pat on the back?
Remember actions not words.
If your trying g to get a positive reaction from her your still focusing on her not you.
You had a great weekend with D3 that's for you. If she does ask you all I would say is it was a good, we had fun. If she asks what you did I would try to refrain from extreme details. Just hi lights? That part I am still working on myself and others may have better advice in that respect.