Mb - it sounds like your coffee meet up went well.
When W initiates contact again maybe suggest another coffee or lunch meet - nice and casual no pressure, no pursuing.
How is the weight loss program? Still below 300lbs?
Try not to beat yourself up about the past. The past is the past. You can make your future. Try to detach emotionally , and love her from a distance , Patience is key, also if you contribute to other threads you will get more visitors to your thread
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