Hi keefa. Just caught up on your sitch. Read and re read sandi's rules. Read and re read. Then read again Sandi's post on LBH and WaW. It took me some time and a lot of effort to realize my words will not change anything. actions will. I am still working on it too. Will be for a long time. Try and remember she has chosen to take this journey. If you were the one that chose to leave would her saying please don't go change your mind? This is your chance to become the best keefa there is! I am sorry she is being nasty and childish about things. A breaking point for me was when I was so angry I was ready to toss all her crap out and kick the doors. Saying you chose this. After praying for understanding and oatience I realized I am choosing to be angry at her actions and I don't like it as it effects my attitude with kids and my focus on GAL. So I am learning to shake it off. I still get mad at times. That's when you out the focus back on you
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.