Do not send him the letter. He doesn't want to hear anything you have to say, especially in your defense at this time. I'm glad you didn't send it. That's a step in the right direction.
When you go to court, dress nicely and be sure to look the judge in the eye. Stay calm and answer questions when they are directed to you. Keep the answers simple and do not go into a lengthy explanation. Short and sweet.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers on the 20th.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
