You are not unwanted, for crying out loud! H has made the biggest mistake of his life. He is not worthy of you. Don't you even begin to wonder what he may feel or think about anything.

He's run off, left his family, and for what? (OK - we know)

You, on the other, are firmly focused on what is important: this child that you brought into the world. He can't say the same.

You have your priorities right where they need to be - on kid. She didn't ask for any of this. I think it's too early for you to date, but I would never judge if you do. It's just my opinion.

I totally understand wanting to have someone available to do things with, a companion - but you have a daughter. Bringing a strange male around your D in these days and times? Ugh!

Maybe you could check into friendship sites instead of dating sites...lol Is there even any such thing?


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti