At this point, I think it's going through. We're still fighting over the settlement. I've been a homemaker for 21 years, while raising 5 children, and moving repeatedly to further his career.
He wants to toss me out the door with nothing. I disagree. From what I understand, this attitude is common among the MLC crowd. Because they've reverted to teenage levels of reasoning and maturity, it's all "mine, mine, mine". Even his L told him he can't do that - but he's still trying. He doesn't like anyone telling him what he can and can't do.
He's tried some really nasty things during all this - I haven't gone into all of it on this site. If I hadn't wrapped my mind around what was happening to him and why - I would seriously hate him right now. He would deserve it, too. He has never been this way in all the years I've known him.
He is a completely different person. Every once in a while I see a glimmer of the old H, but it's usually a glimmer - here and gone before I can even blink.
That is a huge part of the reason I'm not fighting him anymore. He's scaring me.
