Oh man, I didn't intend to have the spotlight turn on me...ouch. This was more of a rhetorical question. I'm not even considering having an affair or separating. We are making a trickle of progress...enough to get rid of those crappy thoughts. I'm just trying to look at all the scenarios...even the bad ones.

Regarding my C...no, she didn't even come close to suggesting this. She just thinks that I take responsibility too frequently and that my W gladly hands it back to me which I agree wholeheartedly with. We absolutely need some help and my W definitely needs someone to really challenge her on some things. I'm sure some of you folks have been following our progress and it looks promising. But it is very clear that her heart is not in it (yet).

Sometimes my posts are "stinkin' thinkin'" because I'm feeling crappy. Between this paragraph and the previous, I talked to my mom about our problems for the first time....I came out of the closet and I'm feeling pretty good now.



Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright