Anyway, my point is, please find some way to take the focus off H and OW. The more you think about them, even if its a fun "revenge" fantasy, the more they will occupy your life. The more you think about yourself, your kids, a hobby, etc, the more that will occupy your life. You have more power than you realize.
I do remember reading about this on Ancaire's thread but I haven't tried it yet. Was just wondering, if I think more about H and I getting back together, is that what will occupy my life? I have been trying that, but it hasn't worked well for me. Does that count?
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
