Also it might be worth reading about building trust after infidelity so you have clarity about what you want from any R. Clarity and a plan, boundaries and a plan to keep them,

Knowledge is power, planning ahead so you protect yourself (and the kids)

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16