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Is it the "peace and stability" that prevents our SOs from changing? My C says it is.


So does your C advocate separation in your case? If so, look at your watch. It's time to find a new counselor.
What a gamble to take! You could end up losing everything. Even if you had a big enough sample group of WAS's, I bet you'd find mixed results. But you don't even have that here. Most of the WAS situations here are people who have decided to give it another try. How many people AREN'T here, who ended up divorced?

Don't let your hotheaded nature control your thinking on this issue Dave. Go take a ride on a bumpy road and tenderize that groin for a while.



Hairdog, who knows the grass is greener over there because they have even more sh!t to spread on it.