Battles of the sexes?

[JulieH]

Fo, I understand what your saying and I had been keeping up with all of your posts. I have always been impressed with the way you were able to validate and put your needs on the back burner.

I am hoping for a counselor or coach that will be able to make it so that both of our needs gets addressed. I understand that I might have to be the first one to make changes and just shut up about my perceived notions of injustice.

I am also thinking that for counseling to work, we both have to want it to work. When we tried a year ago I don't think my husband really wanted it to work. He says differently though.