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Re: Still learning AU Bob AU Bob #2644110 01/17/16 07:59 PM
Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 2,708 Z Zues126 Member
Zues126 Member Z Joined: Jun 2014 Posts: 2,708	Originally Posted By: AU Bob Ok So where to from here, how can i start to repair the damage? If you were drunk and out of control angry one night and you did something regrettable like shout at your W or throw something at her, and you realized you messed up...would you chase after her and corner her and apologize? Or would you give her some space, sober up, and let the situation deescalate? That's what you do. The best way to repair the damage is not doing any more. Give her some space. Don't do anything. Anything you do is going to make it worse. Just focus on 'sobering up' and becoming the man you want to be. I suggested rereading your posts with a new perspective and reporting back to us what stood out. The situation will deescalate. Not necessarily that it won't move towards divorce...but with time, IF you become the man you want to be, and your actions align with this consistently, the situation will calm down. When you're in a hole, quit digging. Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15

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Still learning AU Bob	AU Bob	01/12/16 03:55 PM
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Re: Still learning AU Bob	Zues126	01/17/16 07:59 PM
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