MB Your GALing is inspiring to me. It truely makes me want to get out and make myself happy. To focus on something else. I am getting out too, you just make me want to do it more! As for our minds drifting to S, if its getting less thats a positive! They may never be completely gone, thinking of them less is such a great step tho.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.