I have read your posts in this thread and feel like I am your twin sister who married your H's twin brother... The issues are so similar.
H has (since OW) come out with all this anger and resentment about how I don't make enough money or work fulltime. When I pointed out that part of his list of enticements to get me to move her was 'you never have to work unless you have to', he brushed it off with 'things have changed'.
Thats ok. If you would have both worked this whole time, they would be complaining that you worked too much, only cared about money, and did not give them enough attention. Whatever story works to justify what they are doing. It is all crisis talk.
BT, you're so right! I worked with my own business for the last 5 years. I started it just as the economy tanked and it never made a real profit, so H has also complained about how I was only focused on the business and stopped cooking dinner (because I came home after him).
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
