I talked to my Mom today. They are planning on moving Dad to hospice care this week. The cancer is moving so quickly, especially in his lungs, and I just don't feel ready to deal with this.

W is a stinker. Yesterday she texted me asking if I wanted to have lunch with her on Wednesday. I did not respond. I started thinking about what she wants, what this could be for. I took a deep breath, and decided to wait before responding.

5 minutes later W texted me to add that d21 and d21's bf wanted to see us at this lunch. The lunch was set-up by d21. They must have some big announcement to make.

It's been cold here in Minnesota. Staid in all weekend with s14 and watched football. Nothing too exciting. But calm and safe.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace