Again thank you everyone that is helping me. I am learning not to react on emotion. I would have jumped at the chance to give her some money. And more than she asked for before DB. I told her yes I will move it to her account. She said thank you she needs to get groceries. Some things cost her more than she thought. Taking my time and thinking instead of reacting on feeling made me realize if I give her more than she asked for I am using that to get a reaction. Also putting more pressure on her to pay back more than she asked for. It's a learning curve for me not to react. Just need to stop and think first
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
