Been reading a thread, with some of Sandi s WW advice and explanation.
I did not quit. I do not treat xw any way but with love and respect. I did not break apart my kids family. I have not intentionally made our lives tremendously harder. Xw did all this.
I need to have more respect for myself and start moving forward with my own life "as if" she won't return. I truly hope she comes to me, remorseful and humble and wanting to reconcile our M. That needs to be the only thing that I look for. I can and will be ok, either way. She is in the wrong now, not me. It's on her to take the first step to fix it.
It has been over 6 months apart, and she still goes and spends her alone weekends with her parents. Still can't bear to be alone? I hope she starts to realize that.
Done thinking about that. Time to drop the rope and let her carry this burden alone
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
