Pinn, no I didn't mean that......however, it certainly is possible when dealing with affairs. When I was getting counseling from some great board members, I was told of some true experiences where the OM did not step out of the picture quietly. Some showed up at the WW's work place, made threatening calls of suicide, harrassment, some stalked the WW, and some even threaten to reveal things to family and friends that wasn't aware of the A (which doesn't make sense, but shows how crazy OM was).
It scared the mess out of me! If there was any hint of fog hanging around my head, I think that piece of information helped to clear up my thinking. However, in the beginning of my A, I probably would have dismissed it and said something like, "Oh, not my OM, he would never do something like that".
I know Sandi.. I was just pointing how thick that 'fog' can be. Those stories above are actually exactly what I am afraid of in my case.
