The past few days have been very quiet and peaceful.

I've enjoyed being off work and finally having some time to myself.

I've started a little tidying up, cleaning and reorganising, after emptying a few shelves and drawers of H's belongings.

I still have more of his things to pull together and arrange to be collected, but for now I'm doing OK sorting my things into the empty spaces.

He's also not called me again (now that he has what he wanted, document wise). That's helped, for sure.

I feel OK.

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017