Is it still the wayward fog if he wants to fight for custody? I thought part of it was not caring about anything except the affair.
Although he does have totally unrealistic views of how our children are going to be. Or maybe he's just hiding his emotions about it. So far, he's just said things like "Yeah, it's really going to suck" in a very pragmatic voice, but with no hint of pain about the pain they will experience.
