I understand, J. I'm at the same point. We're attempting to come up with a settlement now.
In my case, I had to let him go. Trying to help him was making the problem worse. I hate it, I really hate it - but I have no desire to continue being the "problem" in his life he can't wait to get rid of.
The sooner I'm out of the way, the sooner he can realize it was never me making him so unhappy. Or, maybe I was. Who knows? I can't control one single thing except how I'm choosing to react. Some days are better than others. LOL
