MB, your GAL activities sound awesome and are the kinds of things I have been doing. You don't have to come up with crazy scenarios for H, because the bottom line is that the "truth" is that 2 cheating liars are spending time together, how could that be a good thing for anyone? Eventually one or both of them is going to cheat and lie on the other. While you are out having a good time with friends and becoming the best version of yourself and holding your head high.
Amen, Fo! You've got plenty of reasons to hold yourself in high esteem, MB. I know, I know - it's hard to feel that way when you perceive that you've been rejected by the one person you don't want to be rejected by.
I keep saying this, though - OW and H have nothing, absolutely nothing, to do with you. This is all about H's problems. He is using this idiot to make himself feel better about himself. At the same time, it will never work. He's cheating - he knows he's cheating - he may feel better for an hour or two, but reality will set in, and then what is he going to feel good about?
He's a cheater? He abandoned his W and family? He's in for a world of pain. So is she. And it has absolutely nothing to do with you.
