We can be friendly, neighborly... sometimes, she slips back into the old wife, smiling, small talking with me. We even sat on the couch together for a bit today.
How much do I interact and show her I'm not cold as ice trumpet? That's my sitch right now.
She's still not going to write a letter. She did finally mention last night, after her taking out some anger on me, that not contacting him, no calls, no texts, is really hard, and she's still hasn't contacted him in a week. Can I check? Nope... she says she values her privacy, and I can't. I have to just trust her... gah!
She comes back to my addiction as well. Saying it's a convient excuse that I have, since I have a name for my addiction, and I'm using it as an excuse. I camly let her know that yes, I'm broken, and knowing that I needed help, I'm currently in counseling, and it's nice to have support. She's in the camp that there is nothing wrong with her, and me 'making' her go to a counselor (she set it up, and put another session on the calendar). I told her last night that if she doesn't want to go, it's not a problem - just don't go. I told her it's up to her if she wants to work on the R. If she does, the NC, letter, IC, and then MC would need to happen.
Subborn WW. GAH!
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
