The start of my happiness.

[Tyler12]

We just talked on the phone with the intention of discussing a few things i needed to bring with me today that she forgot or couldnt take yesterday.

I asked how she is doing. she said ok, asked me i said im doing real good. i have had a great morning.
at that point i switched the convo to the list i had of things to bring today, we discussed what could wait, what specifically she needed (kids toys she would like)

when that was done she told me about the issues she had when she arrived at her place, i listened.

She asked how the kids were and i said really good, we had a big breakfast this morning, they all ate really well, they all had great sleeps. We watched all had popcorn and watched a movie last night.

She said thats good, told me about all she has to do today to which i replied there is going to be lots to do, and its not going to get done in a day.
We talked briefly verifying time and place we are meeting today.
Then i said i have to go get S3 ready for his day now, have a good day i will see you later, she said you too and that was that.
There was no prying by me into how things went last night, how it felt to have her own place now, no excessive talk about how great i am and everything is so far.
I did joke that i miss the dog to clean up the mess S11m leaves after he eats and we both laughed at how you dont notice how much she cleans up.

It was hard not to see how she is doing so far, its only been 12 hours! Putting aside my desire to "need" her isnt easy, i know there is no reason that i should "need" someone in my life to be happy tho.
One day at a time