Thank you NYGal,
She is really being nice and polite. It's so confusing. I have had 4 sessions with a coach prior to the D. I'm not sure when to use the next 2

I'm not sure if she is being polite because I've been DBing well and if so when do I start to show interest again. Ugh....it's so difficult to know what to do. If I show interest in working on our R will she just go back to being nasty and selfish again? Let's see how church goes.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place