Originally Posted By: NYGal
I'm going to yoga this morning. W could be there, but probably won't. How do I do NC and GAL if my GAL involves going to the health club we both belong to? I guess it can't hurt for her to see me exercising and doing something good for myself.


Hi NYG,

You could join a different health club or take yoga somewhere else??? The very first thing I did after BD was join a different gym. Not so much because wife would be there. More so because we went there for years together and I would get constant questions about where she was. I needed a completely fresh start. Definitely one of the best things I did early on.

Hang in there... we all know how hard it is