Painter and Julie, my H always told me I "didn't have to work" and that staying home with the kids was the most important thing. Until he met OW, of course at work, and suddenly he was screaming in my face that I am using him as a slave and he is NOT going to support me forever. Ironically, maybe 2-3 months before BD I brought up going back to work and he gave me this big pep talk about how I should only do it if it was something I wanted, something I loved, that we didn't "need" the money and I should be happy. Funny how quickly things change.
