I really don't think she's after money. She has her own business and owns a house. She's probably better off than us. But I guess my H is worried that now he'll need plane tickets to see his D and plane tickets to see his girlfriend. That could get expensive, haha.

But as I mentioned, my friend has given me some advice, another perspective to look at things and through those glasses I won't let him intimidate to lessen the child support I'm entitled to.
I did already speak to a lawyer, maybe I will again. I also downloaded a lot of bank statements, in case I'll need them. Sad it has come to this.

Fo, I didn't sign the lease, my ex did. That was the problem, without his signature I wouldn't be able to get a place. The plan is D and I will move in, then after I get my citizenship, D and I will be shipped overseas and he can move in.