This is what you should throw yourself into. Buy the land and get going, build that house. While your doing the excavation use the extra dirt and build a track and get your sons a little dirt bike, make some small dips and jumps. They'll love that house then.
When God gives you lemons, make lemonade
Dday, yes! If you let your son's have a huge dirt pile that will trump any other childhood memory you could give them. Maybe you should build a big mud room with a shower in it in your new house, or an outdoor shower, lol.
Be glad you have boys, they are SO much easier than girls. You can throw yourself into this project while at the same time being Dad of the year. I think you should go for it.
