Just got back from coffee with the W. All in all it went really well. Light conversation, positive, upbeat. She was tense, but that melted away. She was fidgeting quite a bit, and eventually relaxed and sat back and looked comfortable. Every once in awhile she would lock eyes while talking and look away a bit and come right back.

She was just in jeans and a sweatshirt and sounded like she was getting a cold,and looked really tired. I wore nice shoes and a sweater, something casual but not over done. She did 75% of the talking, I did all of the listening and validation. She invited me to the parents house next month for a birthday party. Hug when we got there, hug when we left.

Off to church soon. Have a great Sunday everyone.

Me:34
W:33
R: 15 years
M: 7 years
W moved out: 11/21/15
BD: 11/20/15 - ILYBINILWY, PA once
LRT: 12/14/15