My HD H is on Welbutrin and feels that he needs to increase the dosage or change meds because he feels his depression is not being treated adequately. We are currently separated, but he is just starting to broach the possibility of reconciliation with me.

So, we may begin attempting to piece our marriage back together soon, and I am concerned that we are going to have some problems in the sex department. H says he cannot achieve an erection right now at all. I'm sure it is the AD's, in addition to the inadequately treated depression, in addition to the psychological stressors of not being able to maintain an erection, let alone achieve one. A vicious cycle if there ever was one.

I am a "recovering" LD and want our renewed marriage to be the best sexually that it can be for both of us, but I need lots of advice to prepare for the reconciliation if/when it happens. I am not expecting a sex life of any kind immediately, but I do expect to progress to that level and reconnect sexually at some point.

Hairdog, I have read in several of your posts that you are on antidepressants and are HD. How does this affect you? Do you feel that your depression is under control and getting better? Do you expect to wean yourself off the AD's at some point in the future? Any erection probs?

I would appreciate any and all comments, advice, thoughts, questions, etc., from any interested poster.

Thanks,
LG

A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.