Fo, high heels are not my thing, I'd rather see you bare foot in a summer dress. I think I should stop this line of thought. I have not posted on your two current threads. I struggle with being assertive so can't begin to advise there and in the other one I'd feel out of place. I will test the limits of my comfort zone and post in both today.
Roiste, I have mentioned earlier that I struggle with compliments. They make me uncomfortable, what you said about having fans did just that. I just thought "I'm not worthy". Wow, I need work, thinking I'm not worthy of have people like me is an indicator of something. Is there a bottom to this can of worms. I just bought a new codependency but read only a few pages but that's it. I've been letting everything slip this week. Not sure why. I will get myself back on track and post about my efforts. I tend to struggle when there aren't clear step by step procedures.
Fogg, I will try this technique this afternoon and this week. Hopefully I will feel it's effects soon. Please share any other insights you discover, I need all the help I can get. Thank you. I've been worried about you, you seem to be in a rough patch. You are loved my friend, remember that.
Jelly, my dear Jelly, as I read your post I gasped and covered my mouth. You nailed me, it seems so obvious to me now. I can't wait for IC tomorrow. I will work on myself with your suggestion today and everyday. Your post shines light in my dark closet, now I will be able to take a proper inventory and recycle the unnecessary clutter. Thank you kind friend.
Di, how are you? I read your thread and am interested in your evolution. Keep posting, you have groupies
