The incident with the card Roiste had to be seen to be believed. My W handled it with such aggression - pushing stuff in to my hand, expecting me to sign without reading; expecting me to cut cards up in front of her - I had to say no otherwise I would have come over as a pushover. I'm not quite sure how any of my actions came over as controlling. I simply refused to do what she wanted, when she wanted it done. It would have been humiliating to do all this in front of my three kids. Don't forget, she then wanted me to do something that favoured her, not me.
Smetimes it's difficult to convey what really happened online. It can read wrong and looks like you were being a bit of a jerk but I know this isn't the case. I fully understand how the WW still thinks they are in control of your life and I fully understand the need to get the message across that this isn't the case at all. Sure, it'll p!ss them off but tough. I think you did well here.
As for the dating thing. I hear ya. There's plenty of time for that. You should head over to Zuse's thread. He and GB are having quite an insightful discussion on this very subject. Ok so all our circumstances are different but there are some gems of insight in there.
Pint soon?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
