REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!

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One thing you may try to make things easier is to think about all the different scenarios that could be taking place, not just the one you have automatically created in your head.....

For example, if they are out for her birthday and she's the type of woman that has no problem being as brash as you described, maybe they are out with a bunch of friends and she's ignoring him while hitting on other men.

I know that I tend to assume that I know what they are doing and what is going on. I also know that my mind reading skills sometimes have me thinking something different than what is going on. I would love to think that she would ignore him and flirt with someone else, but she drove 5 hrs up here just to walk in the house while I was with him. Someone doesn't put that much effort into someone they don't intend to be with. Not to mention that I am just not that lucky. He has been down there visiting her for the past 4 days. Beginning to wonder if he's ever coming back. Perhaps I can come up with a different scenario.... Maybe while he's down there, there was information stollen from his bank and they had to immediately cancel his debit card. He is unaware and takes her out for a nice dinner with appetizers, drinks, and the most expensive thing on the menu. When he goes to pay, they come back to the table and tell him that his card was DECLINED. He is feeling completely embarrased and humiliated in front of this oh so special H stealer and has no cash on him. How unfortunate that she has to pay for her own birthday dinner. Then, when they go back to the hotel, he can't stop thinking about what she must think of him and he can't get past the embarrassment. Such a shame because it also prevents him from being able to have sex with her. What a shame that would be if he were stuck down there with no way to spend money on her and unable to have sex with her because of his embarrassment and humiliation.

Okay....now I feel better!