Gmum...never EVER under estimate the power of the Ow when it comes to finances. You seem so reluctant to get a lawyer, I do hope you change your mind. If not for your sake then for your Ds.

My aunt told me to fight for every penny due because it isn't my money, it belongs to our kids. So what makes me think it's okay to throw away their financial wellbeing and security simply because I love their father? No. Especially not with someone who spends like a teenager whenever it suits him. So that's how I'm looking at it now

Everyone has given you great advice. Im sorry you broke down after mediation.

((gmum))

You'll find the strength you need.


Rain (moi): 40
Ex Fiance: 39
3 kids
On/off again EA & PA
Last BD by ow 12/15
Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15