I have read your posts in this thread and feel like I am your twin sister who married your H's twin brother... The issues are so similar.
H has (since OW) come out with all this anger and resentment about how I don't make enough money or work fulltime. When I pointed out that part of his list of enticements to get me to move her was 'you never have to work unless you have to', he brushed it off with 'things have changed'.
(Interestingly, OW had a good job and has retired early with a nice pension.)
He's also very difficult to have a conversation with, it's mostly 'I don't know' or deflections.
There was more, but it's getting late.
I'm also angry and not sure if we're a good fit at all. But I'm hanging in there...
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
