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I really miss my friend, he was very dear to me.

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Originally Posted By: Vanilla
I really miss my friend, he was very dear to me.

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I am sorry about your friend V, I really am. The cloud has a explanation and it is unreasonable that it is present, however much it is not wanted. There are no words V sometimes. The physical and virtual distance frustrates me so often, and my complete lack of ability to communicate my sense of feeling for you.

Just a lot of virtual hugs coming your way.

Much love V as always (((((((((((((V))))))))))))))

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Sorry to hear about your friend V. I have no other words and not sure what to say but wanted to offer my support just the same.


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Just read about you friend Vanilia. So sorry , No words can take away the pain. You have great memories of him and they are forever. Focus on how lucky you were to have known him and to be part of his life.

Lady V has touched our lives in such a positive way , I can only imagine what actually Iknowing you must be like

Stay strong , his passing is very sad but remember the positive times

Huge hug , Rd. ( I will raise a glass to your friend tonight )

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V, I'm sorry to hear about your friend, and what a tragic thing to die young from food poisoning. Take care of yourself lovely V. Xx


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One of the sadest things is that because this lovely man died at home, his organs he had always wanted to donate couldn't be used.

The irony is this friend has the same name as WH and has the most loving heart, any one receiving it would have been lucky.

His children loved him very much and he too was a carer for his aged Ma. A feisty lady of 92 who now has a bf aged 85. They have announced they are going to live together.

Life just is as it is.

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Thank you for the comfort it means a great deal.

Sotto, Fogg and Jellyb, it means a lot to me.

RD will that be a Guinness or Murphy?

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Sending you another big hug Lady V, I believe even though your friend's organs may not have been used, it's a blessing to transition while at home.

I'm sure he was as fond of you as you were of him.

Sending you love,

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V - I'm so sorry for your loss. You've been having such a tough time lately - I really feel for you.

Please add my love and concern for you, as well? At this moment, I am focusing all my compassion straight to you.

Be well, you wonderful person.

You are loved.


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Hi V, I am very sorry about your friend. Please, try to read and follow somethings you can do in order to grief the death of your friend that was dear to you.

You had too much loss V and every time it takes a toll on your health. Don't let go. Every time there is a bump, you need to remedy that, not just sweep it to under the rug. Take care after these wounds, even if it feel not so severe at the moment.

Glad you are taking the time to exercise. Not very sure if it is a good thing to do 2 hours a day every day. You may want to look into the kind of exercise that would be more effective to you.

I have patients that need to maintain their diabetes under control and 30min workouts or 1 hour walk serve them better then a long one that makes their sugar oscillate.

Also, eating more frequently but in very tiny portions may be a good turn around for your metabolism.

No one is the same V, not sure if it would help you, but you need to find something that works for you.

V, thank you for your visit on my thread, I appreciate. I was in a Divorce support group last night and it was very, very good. It will be 13 weeks and I hope to get enough strength to finally LET GO. It has been a long and painful journey, but I may feel better.

V, you are an amazing and wise woman, please, keep the hard work and take good care after yourself.

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