Well, that's too bad. It can't feel very good to light the bridge on fire and give her every reason to feel she made a good decision in leaving.

You've been itching to do this for a while now, I'm not surprised you have. Do you feel better now that you have 'closure'?

I suggest you reread all of your old posts and our replies. Make notes of what you caught this time around that you didn't the first time. Think about who you want to be and get back to us.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...893#Post2622893


I hope this is your bottom and you turn things around. Time to start doing some hard, hard work. The best way to change how you feel is to become a person different than you've been the last 30 years and 30 days. It's never too late. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15