[/quote] Sandi is spot on. Her advice is always solid. Things shifted in my sitch when I had detached and moved on.
LITB-thx again. How long was that when you detached? Was she ready for divorce and about to file?
My W wants to move fast from everything that has transpired since after new years. I now know she just wanted to get thru the holidays and then drop the bomb on me before our latest therapy appointment which she did. She ws talking very loud to a girlfriend and I overhead the whole thing...very hurtful.
We split up on weekends so any DB'ing is a bit tough right now. I can only try the approach during the week etc....
Just looking for some positive results on the board from the approach. Lots of sad stories .....looking for some light.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
