That's what I keep thinking - the good ones are taken. And I really want a partnership. But not at any cost. And how the he!! do I find someone with enough self awareness to not run away or give up at the first sign of trouble.
Sigh.
I guess Gmum, you choose well, then rely a lot of on how much you have developed and grown yourself and then, some pray and some luck. That's my plan.
There are some beautiful, good, insightful, sexy, self aware and soulful men on the boards Gmum. You gotta hope you might run into similar IRL at sometime.
There is still hope for you Gmum, really with H or someone else. You have so much spirit, beautiful inside and out. Hold your hope. It is too soon for you to become hopeless and cynical.
I love the Swingers movie too btw. My Mr M, was a Vince Vaughan type - looks and personality. Watch any Vince Vaughan movie, that's him. Can't help thinking of Mr M whenever I see him in a movie.
